Boyfriends are like wine. They take a long time to mature. But by the time, they have attained that maturity and always wanted and wished flavour, one of us will decide to move on. Then sitting by a coffee house, with a lonely cup of Irish coffee, one will wonder that why your ex- boyfriend dating your best friend's friend is so much into her and why you were a dirty green old couch for him then! The process of vinification starts from choosing the right grapes till bottling the finest wine and placing a cork. This placing of cork, is a metaphor (for if it was not clear to not so deep readers) pointing to the "I want my useless non-productive independence" and "I cannot live my ordinary good for nothing life with him" part! The part where you walked out on him banging the door with a thud, the thud that was a prelude to wet tissues, lot of surfing and not visiting a parlour phase!
A sparkling glass of wine is rarely enjoyed by people working in a vineyard! Ignoring the few indulgent instances it is always and meant to be "for sale". Whatever you have gone through, in turning that sour non-exquisite grape into red toxic liquid was never meant for your kitchen or your dinner table. So, those of you enjoying your wine- smelling him, nosing him, drinking him- should be grateful to that wretched-may be lonely next door girl, who used her expertise in transforming him! For all you know, your hard work is stacked in some other cabinet far far away from you and your place.
The question which often deludes me is what happens to the empty bottles! These men oops the wine bottles are then fit for one kind of market- the matrimony market! Show me a wine which went to a collector's cabinet without enjoying its fame in the market! None for that matter, for the title is redeemed only after much tasting testing and refining!
The time is to check your behaviour- the one of a buyer or the one of a maker. Because if you want to make him you will lose him and if you want to enjoy him you will keep him till his matrimony date (read expiration date). Laughing out loudly, for all the queer breed who believe in one wine bottle for life, are sure missing on some happiness (read tipsiness) and are doomed to be deprived. How selfish can you be, brewing that exquisite brand and drinking it all by yourself!
(Disclaimer: Not applicable to my wine bottle- Hypocrisy!)
3 comments:
liked the way u expressed it :)
It is always better to leave someone better, than when you first met them. Nothing wrong with doing your own little bit in improving the world.
If you can keep the wine you made, it will taste so much better. :p
Hey!!! I jst browsed through your blog,you have got a lot of flavor. Publish your blog on google, every1 can't find it accidentally like me :)....Let others njoy
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